The Heart & Mind Of Victor

Foundations, Builders & Storms

2010-06-28T21:01:00.000-07:00

In the book of Matthew Jesus tells us about, among other things, two buildings. One is built upon the sand and the other upon the rock. But have you ever noticed that the focus of Jesus’ illustration is not only on the foundation? For that matter, neither is it only focused upon the storms. The focus is also upon the builders.

One builder is wise and the other foolish. The wise builder is the one who hears and does. The foolish builder is the one who hears and does not.

Biblical scholar, William Barclay, makes a good point concerning the difference between doing and not doing.

"knowledge only becomes relevant when it is translated into action. Knowledge must become action; theory must become practice; theology must become life. There are thousands of people who listen to the teachings of Jesus Christ every Sunday, and who have a very good knowledge of what Jesus taught, and who yet make little or no deliberate attempt to put it into practice. If we are to be in any sense followers of Jesus we must hear and do.”

"Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock…and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall. But everyone who hears these sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand:" (Matthew 7:24-26)

There are at least two ways to interpret the storms. The storm can be symbolic of the “Storms of Life” (i.e. difficulties, challenges, conflicts, tragedies, and spiritual warfare). On the other hand, as in the OT (and also in Jewish writings), the storm can represent “The Judgment of God.” Such is the case in Ezekiel.

“… because these evil prophets deceive my people…It’s as if the people have built a flimsy wall, and these prophets are trying to reinforce it by covering it with whitewash! Tell these white-washers that their wall will soon fall down. A heavy rainstorm will undermine it; great hailstones and mighty winds will knock it down. …I will sweep away your whitewashed wall with a storm…" (Ezekiel 13:10-13)

You might take issue with the idea of a storm representing the judgment of God. You may say that this amounts to no more than attempting to scare people into the kingdom of God. I’m not so sure that fear is such a bad thing.

Let’s imagine you are asleep in your house and your neighbor is aware that a devastating storm is upon you. And that neighbor comes a-pounding upon your door and frightens you. You awake with a start. You’re angry to be awakened from your peaceful slumber. You decide to go to the door and give that neighbor a piece of your mind. When you open the door he insists, with some sense of urgency, that you leave, right away. You say that you’re not going anywhere because you do not believe. But as the neighbor tells you the extent of the destruction that is coming your way, fear sets in. You are convinced. You rush out to safety, just before both you and your house are swept away. You might agree that your neighbor motivated you by fear but you just might also thank that neighbor, profusely, for scaring you to safety and saving your life

Foundations, Builders and Storms. The bottom line is, if the house is not built upon the proper foundation, when the storm comes, it will fall. So it is with a life that has been built upon a poor foundation. It will fail. The necessary tool by which this house must be built is faith. The foundation upon which it must be laid is the rock. And the end result of building by faith upon the rock is salvation. There is only one salvation and it is only secure when it is founded upon the rock. It is a scary thing to be told that there is a devastating storm a-comin'. God promises that the life founded upon the rock, no matter what storms may come, it will stand. If you are a wise builder, you will build your house upon the solid foundation.

Additionally, it is very encouraging to realize that this foundation is so solid that it can be referred to by no name, other than Rock. Perhaps Jesus' illustration in Matthew is what Edward Mote had in mind in 1834 when he penned the words, "On Christ the Solid Rock, I stand. All other ground is sinking sand. All other ground is sinking sand."

One final thing. Frankly, when we consider the times in which we live (i.e. disastrous oil spill; disastrous economy, disastrous unemployment; disastrous spiritual condition of the country), it is all the more urgent that men, women and children build, by faith, upon The Rock.

I am reminded of the timeless words to the song written by Ruth Caye Jones. "In times like these, you need a Savior. In times like these, you need an anchor. Be very sure. Be very sure. Your anchor holds, and grips the solid rock. This Rock is Jesus."

May you be encouraged throughout the month of July by this rock solid reminder from the heart and mind of Victor.

Say It Again

2010-06-01T10:37:00.000-07:00

Concerning the Internet: It has opened up a world of opportunity for every single person who feels they have something to say. There are blogs and sites for every imaginable subject under the sun. And, in the case of science and religion, everything in the universe. Now, everyone wants to be a philosopher offering their commentary and opinion on everything in the cosmos. I suppose in saying this, I am pointing a boney little finger right back at myself, as well. Oh well. Confession is good for the soul.

Here is what I am leading up to. Sometimes, we don’t need to say anything, other than what has already been said. In my studies, I often run across some very good quotes. I frequently discover that a thing cannot be stated any better than it has already been stated. This is probably why there have been so many books published containing significant quotes by famous people (e.g. Quotable Quotations by Lloyd Cory; “Tale of the Tardy Oxcart” by Chuck Swindoll; “Who Said That” by George Sweeting). So, with this in mind, here are a few quotes that have resonated with me over the years.

“Christianity demands a level of caring that transcends human inclinations.” Erwin W. Lutzer

“Being part of an agenda beyond ourselves liberates us to complement each other rather than compete with each other” Joseph Stowell

“You have not been saved to sit back and wait, you’ve been saved to serve in faith.” V. L. Stanley

“You cannot step twice into the same river, for other waters are continually flowing on.” Heraclitus

“The inherent vice of capitalism is the unequal sharing of blessings; the inherent vice of socialism is the equal sharing of miseries.” Winston Churchill

“Capital as such is not evil; it is its wrong use that is evil.” Mohandas Gandhi

“They that know God will be humble, and they that know themselves, cannot be proud.” John Favel

“We have grasped the mystery of the atom and rejected the Sermon on the Mount…Ours is a world of nuclear giants and ethical infants.” Omar Bradley

“A smile is the universal welcome.” Max Eastman

“Love and a cough cannot be hid.” George Herbert

“In the beginning God made a man and a woman and set them on earth. Then the man and woman looked at each other and burst out laughing.” African Myth

“We are not saved by continuing in the faith, but rather we continue in the faith because we are saved.” V.L. Stanley

“Before I got married I had six theories about bringing up children. Now I have six children—and no theories.” Lord Rochester

“Little pots soon boil over.” Anonymous

“Always take hold of things by the smooth handle.” Thomas Jefferson

“Life is an onion and one cries while peeling it.” French Proverb

“It is not how many years we live, but rather what we do with them.” Evangeline Cory Booth

“To teach is to learn twice.” Joseph Joubert

“Words are loaded pistols.” Jean-Paul Sartre

“We have a head on us for the same reason a pin has: to keep us from going too far.” George Sweeting

“If you would master temptation, you must first let Christ master you.” Anonymous

“By perseverance the snail reached the ark.” Charles Hadon Spurgeon

“To catch even a glimpse of understanding concerning God’s love serves to cast out fear, so that our serving is done out of genuine thanksgiving and humble adoration, rather than personal guilt and morbid fear.” V.L. Stanley

Perhaps you noticed that, interspersed among these quotes, were a few that have been credited to “Yours Truly.” What can I say? Like I said, everyone wants to be a philosopher.

Philosophically and spiritually yours, From the Heart and Mind of Victor.

Discouragment

2010-05-03T11:10:00.000-07:00

It’s funny how your day can be going along just swimmingly and, then…it happens. Someone or something happens that causes you to feel discouraged. Though they may never admit it, even the most positive personalities, eventually, meet up with discouragement.

Frankly, discouragement is a real Joy-Killer. He can ruin the rest of you day; your week; your month. And, if he is not overcome, he will link up with his bosom buddy, depression. Once discouragement and depression link up, watch out! They will take you on a trip. The terrible thing is this trip leads to a destination called despair.

Now, you’re in trouble! You’ve got discouragement, walking hand in hand with depression, both leading you to despair. Sounds pretty bleak, huh? Unfortunately, that’s not the end of it. Once you reach despair you are quickly introduced to “the twins,” Helplessness and Hopelessness. I assure you, they are bad company, indeed. If things did not look bleak before, now, they appear devastating.

My dear friend, you cannot remain here, in this place, in the company of these seedy characters. They mean to destroy you. They desire to control your life. They will cause you to give up. And, in the worst case scenario, they will cause you to think that your life is not worth living.

In the Old Testament “Yā’ash” is a verb found six times meaning "despair," in the sense of "be deprived of hope." In the New Testament “exaporeō” is a rare verb found only in 2 Cor. 1:8; 4:8 with the meaning "despair" in the sense of "give up hope for living." The archbishop of Calcutta tells us that there were times when even Mother Teresa felt abandoned by God. It's a rare person who doesn't get discouraged. It can happen to the best of us.

Therefore, allow me to lead you to encouragement. Someone has said, “Anyone can overcome depression. The first step is to simply realize that there is hope.” Another anonymous source once said, “Hope is the feeling that you will succeed tomorrow in what you failed at today.”

Here are a couple of suggestions for overcoming discouragement. Saturate your mind and emotions with God’s truth about how He really sees you and who you really are in Christ. Replace your negative self-image with a positive self-image. Do this by understanding how God views you, loves you and transforms you, in Christ.

~How God views you: You are the apple of your Father’s eye (Ps. 17:8)

~How God Loves you: You are not able to be separated from God’s love (Rom. 8:38-39)

~How God forgave you: You are free of shame and condemnation; without blame before God (Rom 8:1; Eph. 1:4)

~How God Transforms you: You are being changed and conformed to the image of Christ (Rom. 8:28-29)

The best place I know for the believer to go for encouragement is the Word of God. So, stay in the Word and be encouraged in the Lord.

“Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again— my Savior and my God” (Psalms 42:5-6)

“Give your burdens to the Lord, and he will take care of you. He will not permit the godly to slip and fall.” (Psalms 55:22)

Just a few words of encouragement from the heart and mind of Victor.

Resurrection Day

2010-03-15T06:14:00.000-07:00

A friend sent me a little story that kind of touched me. I don’t know whether it touched me because it reminded me of the recent home-going of my earthly father or because it reminded me of the imminent return of my Heavenly Father.

This “Pine Tree Crosses For Easter” story was written by some unknown author. If you’ve never read it before, I hope that you are blessed by it. If you have read it before, read it again. Either way, I hope that you are blessed by it.

Last Spring on a Sunday afternoon we took one of our "nowhere" drives thru the country. My husband was quietly driving along some back roads. I was occupied in the front passenger seat watching out the window as the scenery went by.
I noticed out of the corner of my eye that my husband was straining to look out my window. This startled me, since his eyes should be on the road in front of him. I asked him what he was looking at out the windows, and he quietly replied, "Nothing. " He could have said he was looking for pine tree crosses for Easter. His eyes went back to the road in front of him.
After a few minutes, I looked over at my husband and noticed a tear running down his cheek. I asked him what was wrong. This time he told me, "I was just thinking about Pop and a story he had once told me." Of course, because it had to do with his Pop I wanted to know the story, so I asked him to share Pop's story with me.

He said, "When I was about 8 years old, Pop and I were out fishing and that's when he told me that the pine trees know when it is Easter."
I had no idea what he meant by that, so I pressed him for more information.
He continued on... "The Pine trees start their new growth in the weeks before Easter -- if you look at the tops of the Pine trees two weeks before Easter, you will see the yellow shoots. As the days get closer to Easter Sunday, the tallest shoot will branch off and form pine tree crosses for Easter. By the time Easter Sunday comes around, you will see that most of the Pine trees will have small yellow crosses on all of the tallest pine shoots."

I turned to look out the window and I couldn't believe my eyes. It was a week before Easter, and you could see all of the pine trees with the tall yellow shoots stretching to Heaven.

The tallest ones shone in the sunlight like rows of tiny golden crosses.

Just a remeinder that nothing could keep Christ from going to the cross to die for our sins. Just a reminder of the celebration of Resurrection Sunday. Just a reminder that he went away to prepare a place for us. Just a reminder that nothing will stop him from coming back again. Just a reminder that He loves us so much...

Just a reminder that these thoughts are from the heart and mind of Victor.

Real Faith

2010-02-07T06:06:00.000-08:00

Faith is essential to the Christian life. And since you might be snowed in or simply enjoying a leisurely moment, I decided to drop you some words and thoughts on the subject. This is actually an installment of our current sermon series entitled, “Real Faith.”

Hebrews 11:1-3 (NKJV) 1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.
2 For by it the elders obtained a good testimony. 3 By faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that the things which are seen were not made of things which are visible.

From the first speck of light that penetrated the darkness and divided the sky, to the creation of birds of the air, animals of the land and fish of the sea. From the creation of man and woman to walk in a garden paradise and praise their creator, to the consequences of giving-in to temptation and yielding to sin. From the blood of the innocent crying out for righteous justice, to the blood of Jesus calling out to the souls of sinners. And from the advance of the church against the very gates of hell to the glory that we shall know when we see him face to face. All of these things, past, present, and future are understood by faith. Not just any faith but real Christian faith in the God of Christianity.

The Christian faith is assuring, insuring, and enduring. So assuring that the blind hymnist, Fanny Crosby, (in 1873), was able to pen the words, “Blessed assurance, Jesus in mine! Oh, what a foretaste of glory divine.” So Insuring that William Williams (in 1774) was able to compose the words, “Guide Me, O Thou Great Jehovah, pilgrim through this barren land; I am weak but thou are mighty, Hold me with Thy powerful hand. Bread of heaven…feed me till I want no more. So Enduring that Charles Wesley (in 1740) was able to write, “Jesus, Lover of My Soul, let me to thy bosom fly. Hide me O my Savior hide, Till the storm of life is past. While the nearer waters roll, whole the tempest still is high! Safe into the haven guide. Oh receive my soul at last! Faith is spiritual life in action. And one thing is for certain, it takes faith to successfully navigate the rigors of life. Faith in chance or fate is risky business. But faith that is assuring, insuring and enduring is founded upon the Savior.

Frankly, the Definition of Faith is not easily derived. We have often taken Hebrews 11:1 to be a formal definition of faith. Writes Leon Morris: “More likely, this is an observation concerning the nature of faith. The writer is bringing our attention to significant features of faith.” One observation is that the “is” in the phrase, “Now faith is…” indicates to us that Faith is a present and continuing reality. It tells us there are realities for which we have no physical evidence. Nevertheless, by faith, we know they exist. It tells us that Faith is a living thing. It tells us that Faith is a way of life. It tells us that Faith extends beyond what we learn from our senses, which is a good thing because our senses can yield uncertainty. They can fool us because they operate by feeling and, thus, are not fully reliable.

Another observation is that “Faith is the substance…” Substance is also translated surety, confidence, and assurance. The word in the Greek is Hypostasis. The literal translation is: “that which stands under.” It is the substructure; it is the foundation underneath the structure.

On Michigan Ave in Chicago stands the 24th-tallest building in the world. The John Hancock building. Built in the 1960s it contains some of the highest residential units in the world. It is characterized by the distinctive X-shaped external bracing. It was an architectural icon of its day. The Building design eliminated the need for inner support beams. The design allows 5 to 8 inches of sway in 60mph wind. It can withstand 132mph winds. There is enough steel in the frame to make 33,000 cars. The frame, alone, weighs 46,000 tons. Its four corner columns weigh up to 100 tons each. It contains over 1,250 miles of wiring and enough aluminum to cover 12 football fields. It contains enough glass to produce a single 5ft foot thick sheet of glass 13 miles long. The building itself weights 384 million pounds. But the only reason it can stand is because of its’ foundation. Its’ lakeside location required caissons (water tight structures) to be sunk 190ft into the ground in order to reach a foundation of bedrock.

Faith is the hypostasis, it is the bedrock, of all that the Christian believes and hopes for. The foundation of our faith is the Word of God. Our faith has to grow to a state where it simply takes God at His word. The goal is for our faith to develop to the point that we wholeheartedly trust and obey. Forthrightly, obedience to God’s word is, in and of itself, an act of faith. Remember, Faith never grows in a disobedient heart. “True Bible faith is confident obedience to God's Word, in spite of circumstances and consequences.”—Warren Weirsbe

A third observation is the phrase “word of God.” It’s usage in Hebrews 11 is not the same usage of “word” as in the gospel of John 1:1-3. John reveals to us that the Word of God is Jesus the Christ. The Greek word used is Logos. He further reveals that, everything that was made, was made through him and, apart from him, nothing could have been made. But in Hebrews the Greek word is rhema. Rhema refers to the utterance by which God summoned into existence all things that previously had no existence. Again quoting Leon Morris:

“Belief in the existence of the world is not faith, nor is it faith when men hold that the world was made out of some preexisting ‘stuff.’ But when we understand that it was the Word of God that produced all things, that is faith.”

Observe that the writer of Hebrews states that faith is the evidence of things not seen. It reminds us that, just as the eye is the organ that enables physical sight, which enables us to see the visible, faith is the organ that enables spiritual sight enabling God’s people to see the invisible. The point is, in creation, the visible things did not originate from visible things. The visible things originated from the invisible words of the invisible God. “By the word of the Lord the heavens were made, and all the host of them by the breath of His mouth. For He spoke, and it was done; He commanded, and it stood fast” (Psalms 33:6; 9). The bottom line is the writer wants his readers to know that this world, this solar system, this universe is God’s doing. We did not see it come into existence but by faith we believe it.

A major and significant example of faith is the testimonies of the elders of old. The author of Hebrews uses for his next object lesson the example of the “elders.” This is a reference to the heroes of the Old Testament. Though they did not physically see the object of their hope they, nevertheless, saw it very clearly through the eyes of faith. The writer does not compile his list of heroes in order to stress a theme of biblical heroes. To the contrary, the writer places his emphasis on faith and the biblical heroes are the examples of it. Their testimony is offered as proof that things that are outwardly unseen are visible through the eyes of faith.

“…There were many men who had nothing but the promises of God to rest upon, without any visible evidence that these promises would ever be fulfilled; yet so much did these promises mean to them that they regulated the whole course of their lives...”—F. F. Bruce

These heroes in Hebrews 11 were true living examples of faith. Yet, I can’t help but to think that, if you and I had made up the list, most likely, none of these names would have made the list, nor would yours or mine. This is because the list is made up of Lovers and Liars; Destroyers and Deceivers; the Affluent and Adulterer; the Helpless and the Homeless and the Prideful and the Prostitute. It is hard for us to accept that God would use sinners such as us. What the names on the list have in common is not their failure but their faith. Not faith in themselves; not faith in another person; not faith in just any god but faith in the living God, Creator of the universe, captain of souls. What a reassuring thought, that the creator of the universe cares about the souls of men and uses sinners such as I.

So, remember, faith is spiritual life in action. Therefore, my encouragement to you is, as your soul navigates the rigors of life, may it be by a faith that is learning to trust and obey. May it be by a faith that seeks to please Him. May it be by a faith that is evidenced both by creation and the testimonies of men and women of faith from times past. More importantly, may it be by a faith that has come to know that reward in the future is secured by the invisible God, creator of the universe and captain of souls.

“And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.” (Hebrews 11:6).

One final thing you should know. As imperfect as you are, by faith, your name has already been added to the list of heroes. Not in the book of Hebrews, but in the heart and mind of Jesus.

Just a few faithful words, from the faithful heart and mind of Victor

Baptism 101 Abbreviated

2010-01-29T18:53:00.000-08:00

Have you ever been baptized?

Perhaps you’ve never given it much thought. I must tell you that one of my greatest joys as a pastor is to baptize believers. Not only do I find it thrilling but I also consider it an honor and a privilege.

Recently I made a decision to move the baptisms at our church to Sunday mornings. Now, they are part of our morning worship services. The response to this has been very positive. But you may be wondering why I feel so passionate about baptism. For that matter, if you haven’t been baptized, you may be wondering what the big deal is surrounding it. Well, I’ve decided to take the liberty to give you a crash course on baptism. Call it baptism 101, abbreviated.

The first most important lesson is baptism does not save. Baptism doesn’t make you a believer — it is a testimony to the fact that you are already a believer. Again, baptism does not “save” you, only your faith in Christ does that. Baptism is like a wedding ring —it’s the outward symbol of the commitment you’ve already made in your heart.

So, what’s the significance of baptism? The scriptures tell us that…

…It Illustrates Christ’s Burial and Resurrection in the life of a committed Christian.
Colossians 2:12 (NLT) 12 For you were buried with Christ when you were baptized. And with him you were raised to new life because you trusted the mighty power of God, who raised Christ from the dead.

…It Illustrates Your New Life As A Christian.
Romans 6:4 (NLT) 4 For we died and were buried with Christ by baptism. And just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glorious power of the Father, now we also may live new lives.

Let me sum it up this way. Baptism is an expression. It is a celebration of your new life in Christ. It is also a chance for your brothers and sisters in Christ to celebrate with you, as you honor your commitment to a new life in Christ. Baptism is not the act of salvation, but it is an expression of your faith. It is an opportunity for you to express publicly what you have already confessed privately.

Therefore, believers ought to get baptized…

…In Order To Follow the Example Set by Christ.
Mark 1:9 (NLT) 9 One day Jesus came from Nazareth in Galilee, and John baptized him in the Jordan River.

…In Order To Follow the Commandment of Christ.
Matthew 28:19-20 (NLT) 19 Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. 20 Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”

…In Order To Follow the Example of Obedience to Christ, as Practiced by 1st Century Christians.
Acts 18:8 (NLT) 8 ...Many others in Corinth also heard Paul, became believers, and were baptized.

The Bible teaches us that Christ is the way, the truth and the life; and walking with God means living out that truth in your personal life, daily. Your baptism is simply an acknowledgement that the desire of your heart is to walk with God faithfully and live for Him passionately. Placing your faith in Christ is the launching point for your spiritual journey. Baptism is a public acknowledgement that your journey is already under way.

You may also find it interesting to know that Jesus isn’t simply interested in guaranteeing you a spot in heaven. He wants you to fulfill the purpose for which you were created. You were created in his image in order to give him the highest praise. Even more, He is interested in a personal relationship with you. In fact, He wants to be your friend.

“For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still his enemies, we will certainly be saved through the life of his Son. So now we can rejoice in our wonderful new relationship with God because our Lord Jesus Christ has made us friends of God.” Romans 5:10-11 (NLT)

So, if you are already on that spiritual journey and, in light of what you’ve read, if you want to be baptized, I’d be thrilled to do the honors.

Baptism 101,...abbreviated. From the heart and mind of Victor

A Letter From God

2010-01-11T11:37:00.000-08:00

Ever wonder what God would say if he wrote a personal letter to you?

Years ago, Dr. Larry D. Stephens made an attempt to respond to this question in a book entitled “Please Let Me Know You, God.” His letter is God’s response to a believer who has suffered some pain, hurt, injustice, or has experienced tragedy in their life (this would include most of us). As a result, many believers have a tendency to question God and ask “why,” only to be met by seeming silence. Others have allowed this to cause them to pull away from their relationship with God or allow it to cause their faith to waver. The fact is, God is not deaf, nor is he blind, and he cares deeply for his children.

With this in mind, perhaps this letter from God will resonate with many of you:
My dear child, it has been a long time since I’ve heard from you. You haven’t’ let me hold you in my arms lately.
You may not understand this, but I really do get lonely when you are away from Me. I miss you very much. I miss being able to encourage you and help you with your problems. I miss sharing your joys and your sorrows. I miss the talks we used to have. It seems you come around only when you celebrate holidays or when you really get into a bind. Or when you get angry with Me or think I’m been unfair.
I understand how you feel. I know it’s difficult for you to trust Me, given all the things people say about Me these days. I also realize how hard it is for you to understand all the pain and suffering you’ve had to endure in your life. And there’s so much injustice in the world.
Believe Me, I understand.
And I want you to know how much I love you.
Every since you were born, I have loved you. You never saw Me, yet I taught you to walk. I provided your first nourishment. I was so proud of you when you took your first steps, when you spoke your first words.
My plan was for you to receive my love through your parents when you were little. Maybe your parents didn’t follow My wishes. Perhaps you didn’t receive the love I intended you to have. Perhaps the pain you’ve suffered in the past few years has caused you to lose sight of Me.
Even so, I have continued to love you. Year by year, I have drawn you to Me with gentle cords of love. I gave up My son for you so that we could be together, now and forever.
I will never cease to love you. I will never let go of you. I will never leave you or forsake you.
You may find this hard to believe, after all you have been through, but it is true.
You can learn to trust Me.
You can experience my love.
You can experience my presence with you in a real and intimate way.
My dear child, come a little closer. Let me show you the tenderness of this Father’s heart. Please let me love you.

Of course, this is not really a letter from God. This is Dr. Stephen’s creative attempt to articulate God’s sentiments. But do not be disheartened because God has, indeed, written a personal letter to you. In fact, he has written you so many letters that they form a book.

During this year of 2010, why don’t you make it a point to read it on a regular basis. Because time and time again and page after page you will find just how much he really loves you.

"The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness." Jeremiah 31:3 (NIV)

Just a thought From the Heart and Mind of Victor.

Have a Healthy Season

2009-12-01T03:10:00.000-08:00

As I sit staring at our Christmas tree (that came to fruition by no small amount of effort), I feel compelled to write something that rings with holiday overtones (pun intended). By way of confession: I always gain too much weight over the holidays. (I should probably go to the health club on Monday).

Thanksgiving is now behind us. A few of us are trying to work off the pounds we gained during that festive, extended weekend. Some of us began our workout by doing battle on Black Friday. God bless you folks who find the strength to forfeit sleep, endure the cold and engage ravenous crowds, all for the hope of securing a deeply discounted laptop at Best Buy or Wal-Mart (of which they only have one per store). In more recent years, some retailers have decided to honor the law of truth in advertising and include this in the fine print of the ad (that there is only one of these voraciously desired electronics per store). Nevertheless, this does not deter thousands of people from lining up for it. Ha! I’ll bet many of them gained weight over the holiday (They should probably go to the health club on Monday).

On the other hand, there are those who brave the elements, forfeit the sleep and fight the perpetual crowds, not because they think they will be that one in a million who lays hold on some deeply discounted and coveted prize that will fulfill their lives from here to eternity. They do it for the thrill. Others do it for the fun of being with friends and family. They find value in being out and about in the crowd; shopping, laughing and enjoying one another’s company. Admittedly, even I can see the value in that. Still, whenever I shop I tend to make a pit stop at the sweets shops along the way (I should probably go to the health club on Monday).

As I sit here gazing into twinkling lights, I feel just a tad bit excited about the days ahead. Like a child in anticipation of Christmas Day, I look forward the Christmas musicals, the holiday decorations, festive music and the scintillating aromas of the holiday season. And, as if I hadn’t already had more than my fill of turkey, dressing, eggnog and German chocolate cake, the atmosphere of this time of year causes me to yearn for more. By season’s end, my celebration will leave me exhausted from shopping and many pounds heavier (I should probably go to the health club on Monday).

I don’t know about you, but sometimes I am struck by my own carnality. It is so easy to think of all the sights and sounds of this holiday season and not think as much about the original reason behind the season. There is something more bright than tinsel and twinkling lights. There is something more fulfilling than turkey and dressing. There is something to be sought more passionately than that one deeply discounted item. There is the Savior; the Messiah; the Lord of Hosts, who came from the heavenly realms into a world of gluttons and shoppers so that He might save all who believe. He purchased, for us, salvation for our souls. However, the cost was not by way of a deep discount. The cost was by way of the shedding of his blood and the giving of his life. He also offers truth in advertising (and not in fine print). Prominently displayed in his ad are the words:

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” John 3:16

So, as we savor the holiday fare; as we enjoy Christmas musicals; as we shop till we drop and as we enjoy the company of friends and family, let us once again remind ourselves to set our sights on the Savior. Notwithstanding, we should also probably all make it a point to go to the health club on Monday…but we should make it our daily focus to go to the savior. Not only on Monday, but on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday…(you get the idea).

With a belly filled with food; a mind filled with the sights and sounds of the holiday season and a soul satisfied with Jesus, this is from the Heart and Mind of Victor.

Change Is Inevitable

2009-10-14T06:51:00.000-07:00

Man! Does life get busy, or what?

Sometimes I find myself so busy with…stuff that I can’t seem to find any down-time. On the other hand, it sure beats being bored. It is interesting that there are some of you out there who probably have the opposite challenge; you are bored stiff and long for something to do. Maybe you should investigate your options. Find something to do. I have always felt that autumn is a great time to incorporate positive change. But for those of us who are already busy, we want change to stop for a minute. Just give us a moment to catch our breath. Nevertheless, over the years I have discovered that, whether you are ready for it or not, change is inevitable.

In autumn, seven years ago, these were the thoughts I wrote in my journal:

Sometimes I think about the things I do—the day to day tasks, the must do’s, the necessary, the the simple and the complex activities of life. When I take a really close look at them, many of them seem so very trivial. Especially when compared to the need for people to know you; know your mercy; your grace; your salvation.

I imagine that even in tropical climates there is something in the air that signals a changing of the seasons. Here, it is time for the changing of leaves, birds flying south, and days growing shorter. I imagine that for people like me, ordinary people, there are still other things that signal change in our lives. Such as our parents growing older, our children growing older, and we are growing older.

Lord, prepare me for the changes that must come in my life. Prepare me for the victories and defeats. Prepare me for the trials, as well as the triumphs. Throughout our journey together you have proven to me, time and time again, that you are a God of mercy, forgiveness and second chances. Now, use me to help others along their life’s journey. Help me to be content with where you have placed me, with what I am doing, and with how you are using me.

But, Lord, if it is time for another change…time for another season in my life, then, let me accept it, embrace it and trust you…all the way to the end. (Signed, your son, Victor)

My dear readers, I don’t know where you are in your life’s journey. You may be contemplating marriage, a veteran of marriage, or a married veteran. You may be seeking a career, changing careers, or retiring from a career. Perhaps you are beginning your spiritual journey as a new believer in Christ, cultivating your current walk with Christ or trying to figure out how you allowed yourself to slip away from a committed walk and into a casual stroll, with only occasional moments of faithfulness (Some changes are not so good).

My advice, reevaluate where you are. If you are off track, get back on track. Embrace positive change or, depending upon your present state, incorporate constructive change into your life. The kind that cultivates a committed walk and promotes spiritual growth. Because, one thing is for certain, no matter where you are in your life right now, it is a guarantee that you will not be there in the future. If only by reason of the seasons, change will come. Yes, change is inevitable.

This is why we need Jesus. Because in a world of change, we still desire (and need) stability, consistency, solidity, firmness, steadiness, reliability and strength. There is only one who can guarantee these for an eternity.

"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever." (Hebrews 13:8)

From the ever changing Heart and Mind of Victor

Faithfulness in Service

2009-09-24T07:17:00.000-07:00

During my time as a student at Moody Bible Institute, for a period of time, former president of the institute from 1971 to 1987, Dr. George Sweeting, as Chancellor, was keeping office hours there. He could sometimes be encountered walking through the hallways. Older married students, such as I, used to congregate in the Coffee Cove before, between and after classes. We would gather around a table, share a meal and debate our views on theological issues. More than a 100 times we debated the issues of Calvinism, Armenianism; eternal security, dispensationalism and anything else that allowed us to sharpen our theologically pointy heads. Just the thought of it brings back fond memories. Needless to say, each of us felt that we held the “right” view. The great thing about it is that our differences did not hinder our friendships.

Anyway, as I was saying, Sweeting would happen through the Coffee Cove every once in a while. What a grand old fellow. He was friendly and always seemed to have time to chat with a student. He once said to me that he was so glad to see more people of color having an opportunity to devote themselves to fulltime formal study in the scriptures, in preparation for ministry. He recognized that, due to economic inequities, the number of minority students was not large. Most worked during the day and took one or two classes during the night school. Frankly, that is exactly how I began my time at Moody.

Sweeting was often the speaker during our chapel time at Moody. I always loved to hear him speak. When he spoke of D.L. Moody it was as if he knew him personally and had just spoken to him last week. Dr. Sweeting is still at it and if you ever get the chance to hear him speak, take advantage of it. He is a grand and godly story teller. Recently, I was reading his thoughts on faithfulness in service. Here is an excerpt:
“Once, while Francis of Assisi was hoeing his garden, he was asked what he would do if he were suddenly told he would die that day at sunset. He answered, “I would finish hoeing my garden!” Hoeing his garden was a God-given assignment, and faithfulness in every task God gives is required of all who serve (1 Corinthians 4:2).”

Isn’t that thought provoking? The message is that faithfulness in service is expected of all Jesus-followers. How could Assisi serve even if he knew he were going to die that night. The answer must be because his confidence was in Christ. So should be ours. The apostle Paul once said, “So we are always confident, knowing that while we are at home in the body we are absent from the Lord. For we walk by faith, not by sight.” (2 Cor. 5:6-8).

Serving is more than a word. It is the epitome of what Christ came to do. He came to serve. Thank God that he did. Had he not, we, all of us, would be doomed and hopelessly lost.

So? What’s the point? The point is we too, all of us, are called to be faithful servants. The ramifications of this extend well beyond sitting in a church and listening to a Sunday morning sermon and then getting up and going home. The point is, you are called to serve. Perhaps your talent is to serve as a teacher, nursery worker, usher, singer or musician. Maybe you can volunteer in the homeless shelter and be a witnesses for the Shelter In The Time Of Storm (for you young folks, this is a title that older folks have given to Christ).

The point is, as you deal with the cares of this world; as you navigate the difficulties of life; as you experience the joys of living; as you debate issues in the coffee cove (or Starbucks) of your life; as you do life, don’t let it deter you from serving the Savior. Whatever you do, do it as one who walks by faith and not by sight. Do it well. Even if it’s no more than hoeing the garden, do it to the glory of God. Do it with the confidence of knowing that, if you were to die at sunset, you will be present with the Lord.

“…The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many." Matthew 20:28.

Just some thoughts on serving from the heart and mind of Victor.

Choose Your Attitude

2009-08-04T18:33:00.000-07:00

For the month of August we began a series at CBC entitled, “Wisdom, Mixed with Grace and Seasoned with Salt.” It is a study through Paul’s letter to the believers in the city of Colosse. After reading through the letter a few times, in preparation for the series, I was struck by verses 5 through 6 of chapter 4.

5 Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. 6 Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one. (NKJV)

I believe these verses speak volumes concerning God’s expectations for our Christian conduct and character. They touch on the issue of how we are to carry ourselves before believers and non-believers alike. In my opinion, they also imply that we need to watch our attitude. You’ll have to follow the sermons on-line to see how all this is fleshed out.

The other thing that strikes me about the letter is I get the distinct impression that Paul is a great encourager. He must be because, as he writes, he is sitting in chains, a prisoner for preaching the gospel. In spite of this, he has chosen to have an attitude of prayer and thankfulness.

There is a book entitled, “Fish” (by Stephen Lundin, Harry Paul & John Christensen). It is a book about how to boost morale and improve results in the workplace. In it they write:

“By accepting that you choose your attitude you demonstrate a level of personal accountability and proactivity… (the result can be) energizing.”

Paul chose to have an attitude of thankfulness. What a good reminder to us that we also need to recognize the fact that we can choose our attitude. And, frankly, many of us need to take advantage of it. Many of us have bad attitudes about everything from our feelings towards our jobs to our feelings towards one another. We may not like to hear this but, as a Christ-followers, we are called to check our attitude in every situation.

Furthermore, we are called to exercise wisdom and to make good use of our time (which probably means, among other things, we should do a lot less complaining and a lot more praying). As believers we are called to walk a certain way; to talk a certain way and to be prepared to respond to those who ask, “What is it about you that makes your attitude concerning life so unusual?” We need to be ready to tell them that the answer is, “It’s because of our walk with Christ, the giver of life.”

All of this requires having the right attitude. We cannot control every situation or outcome in our lives. Nevertheless, in the midst of whatever challenges we might be facing; in the middle of undesired conclusions; in the center of uncertainty, we are called to have an attitude of prayer and thankfulness. And that’s exactly what Paul encourages believers to do in his letter.

Colossians 4:2 (NLT)
2 Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart.

Just some thoughts from the thankful heart and prayerful mind of Victor.

Mirrors

2009-07-08T05:58:00.000-07:00

If the truth be told, I was a very strange kid. Just ask my brothers and sisters…on second thought, don’t.

One example of my strangeness was I had a slight fear of looking into a mirror at night. I know it sounds silly but mirrors used to creep me out. I guess I had seen one too many horror films where a blood thirsty monster is standing behind a defenseless young lady, about to pounce upon her. When she looks into the mirror she sees it but when she turns around, she sees nothing. I guess my reasoning was if I don’t see it, it can’t hurt me. Ha! A little kid’s reasoning can be quite askew. On the other hand, so can an adult’s.

The longer I live, the more I realize that a significant number of adults have a fear of mirrors. It is so easy for them to determine what kind of person they are without looking into the mirror. They ascribe to themselves flattering characteristics. They esteem themselves to be the standard by which others should judged. They view themselves as admirable…to a fault. They don’t consciously say these things, but they carry themselves this way. They can’t see that there is a monster called “Pride” that has already pounced upon them.

I’m an alumnus of Moody Bible Institute so I receive their alumni magazine. In their latest issue (Sprg. 09, Vol. 59, No. 2), I ran across a brief statement that reminded me of my childhood fear of mirrors:
“We often take reflections in a mirror, glass, or water for granted. Sometimes even ignoring them all together. Others can’t pass by their reflection without stopping to admire themselves. But our reflections can often let us know that we have a smudge on our face or that our hair is mussed up. They are also used as tools to help us shave or apply makeup. We don’t look at our reflection and not react in some way to check, correct, or enhance our appearance. The word of God can give us spiritual reflections. Do we make the same kind of corrections or enhancements when we see a flaw or a way to make ourselves better, from Scripture? What’s in YOUR reflection?”

It’s tragic that people can’t see the “smudge on their faces.” It's because they fail to stop and take a look at themselves (not a parting glance but a long, honest, lingering look) into the mirror. Earlier this week, Cynthia and I sat and spoke with a man and his wife about Jesus. That man shared his past with us. He shared how he had people, money and power. He shared how he had been raised in the church but that he was now back-slidden. He had forgotten about God and, as a result, his life had spiraled down into the abyss of destruction and despair. Now he was sitting and looking at himself in the mirror and saying, “I’m tired of seeing myself in that reflection, I need to see Jesus.”

As Christ-followers, we are called to no longer behave as children with childhood reasoning. We are called to become mature believers who reflect Jesus. That’s what I want to see. I want to see Jesus when I look into the mirror. It is a life-long pursuit but I am committed to the quest. I pray that you are too.

“When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.” 1 Corinthians 13:11-12 (NKJV)

From the Heart and Mind of Victor.

Fathers

2009-06-08T19:29:00.001-07:00

Father’s Day rolls around every June. It is unfortunate that there is not as much fanfare for fathers on Father’s Day as there is for mothers on their annual day of recognition. Sure, I know that there are absentee fathers as well as (tragically) abusive fathers who have tanished the image of fatherhood. This breaks my heart. Nevertheless, fathers are important too. I could not imagine life without my father. Like so many others who have had goodly experiences with their fathers, over the years I have developed my own personal idea of what a true father is like .

A father is a person characterized by strength, wisdom, and hard work. My father was a blue collar man. He worked in a factory for over 30 years. He seemed to always own a pickup truck so pickup trucks reminds me of fathers. He knew how to work on cars so whenever I see a guy under the hood of a car it reminds me of dads. I almost never remember him without his prominent and ever expanding bald spot, which later played a major part in his decision to simply shave his head; so bald heads remind me of dads. He likes fishing and took us out for our fair share of it during our childhood; so fishing reminds me of dads.

My father seemed to always be in the habit of helping other people and that has rubbed off on me, to a fault. One time I gave away all our family room furniture to a needy family. My children came home from school and thought we had been robbed. I blame my father for that. He was just too nice of a guy…except when he had to discipline us.

There were times when our misbehavior made him so angry his eye-balls turned red and protruded about 3 inches from their sockets. That’s why, to this very day, bulging eye-balls reminds me of fathers. Nevertheless, by the time Sunday rolled around he was in a good enough mood to take us on a family drive that often ended at the Dairy Isle, a local ice cream shop; so small corner ice cream shops remind me of my father too.

You know, having a father who disciplines is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, it is a godly thing. A father who loves his children should discipline them. And, according to the writer of Hebrews, God the Father is no exception:

Hebrews 12:7-9 (NIV) 7 Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? 8 If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. 9 Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live!

Like everybody else on the face of the planet, my earthly father is not perfect. Furthermore, the images that remind me of my father could be far and away from the images that remind you of yours. Still, we can agree that the discipline and correction of a good father has made us better, stronger and wiser. In fact, the combination of an imperfect father and an imperfect mother make the perfect combination for raising godly children.

My final thoughts: we can find commonality in the fact that our fathers are ours, and in my mind that makes all the difference in the world. Even though we may not share the experience of having the same earthly father, for those of us who have committed our souls to the savior, we do share the privilege of having the same heavenly father. He is ours and, by the way, he IS perfect.

Words and thoughts. Sincerely, from the heart and mind of Victor.

Rainy Days and Mondays

2009-05-18T08:52:00.000-07:00

I looked back at one of my journal entries today.

I’m in a melancholy mood. The words to an old song by a group, The Carpenters, keep floating through my head. The song, written by Paul Williams & Roger Nichols, is called “Rainy Days and Mondays.” The song has a refrain that goes, “Rainy Days and Mondays always get me down.” Well, it’s not raining today so it must be the fact that it is a Monday that has affected my frame of mind.

As I said at the beginning, I was looking at a journal entry in which I wrote the following words, “Walls make you feel safe. Windows enable you to see through the walls, while remaining safe on the inside.” Throughout that journal entry I noted that walls pop up everywhere in our lives. There are walls that affect our careers, our ambitions, our relationships. Everything. The thing about walls is they allow us to remain safely tucked behind them, looking through the window, but never venturing out to face the challenges on the other side. This can be unhealthy.

In that journal entry I also noted that I was praying for God to move me from behind my wall of safety to a place where I could make a greater impact in my world for Christ. I actually wrote that I would be willing to pastor a church and lead a flock into uninhibited worship and dedicated service for the cause of Christ. Furthermore, I wrote that, at that time, I felt stifled in my service and smothered by my passivity. That was years ago (four, to be exact). What in the world did I pray that for? Now look at me! I’m a senior pastor.

Here are some words of wisdom for you: Watch what you pray for. You just might get it. Ha!

So, the words to this old song had been floating through my mind. The neat thing is, Ive found they provide a “spiritual vitamin” for a melancholy Monday:

Talkin' to myself and feelin' old
Sometimes I'd like to quit
Nothing ever seems to fit
Hangin' around
Nothing to do but frown
Rainy Days and Mondays always get me down.

What I've got they used to call the blues
Nothin' is really wrong
Feelin' like I don't belong
Walkin' around
Some kind of lonely clown
Rainy Days and Mondays always get me down.

Funny but it seems I always wind up here with you
Nice to know somebody loves me
Funny but it seems that it's the only thing to do
Run and find the one who loves me.

There! Did you catch it!? That last verse. It’s in these melancholy moments that “I always wind up here with you.” That would be “with Christ.” “Nice to know somebody loves me.” That would be God. “Run and find the one who loves me.” That would be Jesus. At least, this is the way I processed the words on a melancholy Monday.

So what’s the point? The first point is: dare to pray for God to move you beyond the walls that inhibit your life. If the walls are never torn down between you and your ambitions, you will never advance in your career. If the walls are never torn down between you and your relationships, you will never have good friends. If the walls are not torn down between you and your inhibitions, you will never step out in faith so that God can use you to make an impact within your spheres of influence.

The second point is, don’t waste rainy days and melancholy Mondays. Allow them to drive you to the savior. It is in these moments that we are apt to drop our guard and allow God to comfort us. It’s in these moments that we do some of our most passionate praying. It is in the quite reflection of these moments that our minds and hearts are receptive to the Lord’s leading. So let him tear down the walls and lead you along life's way. Amen? Amen.

Just some melancholy thoughts, on a rainless Monday, from the heart and mind of Victor

Mother

2009-05-08T12:04:00.000-07:00

I cannot help but to think warm thoughts whenever I think of mothers. Adjectives such as loving, kind, patient, wise and discerning come to mind. Admittedly, it is sad and unfortunate that in our modern times we have anomalies to this image of motherhood. Our news is littered with horrendous stories of mothers who have behaved in manners that are godlessly disturbing. I realize that some of you reading this have not had the ideal mother and the thought of her conjures sad memories. I’m so sorry for that and welcome your email requests for prayer support in order to help you through it. However, let me also assure you, these anomalies are not the image that God intended for mothers.

I’m sure that others of you reading this have fond memories of your mothers. They certainly are unique creatures, aren’t they? mothers, I mean. They seem to posses this uncanny ability called intuition, which is based upon nothing tangible. Mothers can sometimes read your face and can tell when you are stretching the truth. Mothers can also have hunches and her hunch will oftentimes turn out to be right on target.

My thoughts of my mother are wonderful recollections. Thoughts of her laugh, images of her smile and the sound of her voice cause a flood of reminiscences to rush into my mind. I love my mother. If I had to sum her up in one word it would have to be the word “servant.” That woman served a husband and six children for many years. She's serve God even longer than that. She continues to advise me to this very day. I often tell the congregation how she preaches to me during our conversations. When I tell her, “Mom! I already know that. After all, I am a preacher. For goodness sake, I graduated from seminary!” It does not deter her. I simply have to wait until she finishes her 3 point sermon, say, “I love you.” And hand up the phone, while a smile plays at the corners of my mouth.

As I was saying, the years gone by are filled with memories of my mother’s service to others. Her service to others has been motivated by her service to our Lord. Even now, in her twilight years, she and my father open their home regularly to a bible study group. She doesn’t move as fast as she used to, nevertheless, the living and moving she does do is to the glory of God.

I attribute much of my desire to serve God’s people in ministry to the example of servanthood displayed by my mother. And it is, indeed, a privilege to serve. I didn’t say it was easy. I did not say that it was not sometimes frustrating, other times difficult and occasionally lonely. I said it was a privilege. When I walk into my office, I remind myself of this at least once a week. I call it "being grateful."

In case you didn’t know it, you too are called to be God’s servant. Servanthood is not just for godly mothers and seminary taught preachers. It is for every believer in the family of God. It is unfortunate that some of us get it wrong. Charles Finney once said concerning this sort:

“They all profess to be servants of God, and yet by observing the lives of many, it becomes manifest that instead of their being God's servants they are only trying to make God their servant. They are seeking to make God their friend, that they may make use of Him to serve their own turn.” Charles G. Finney

So, here is the bottom line. God has equipped each one of us so that we might be servants; not serving God in order to get, but serving Him because we have already been given. Christ gave himself for us. If there is any debt owed here, it is our owing him. Christ did not equip us with gifts to simply sit on them, but so that we might serve.

So, as you remember your mother (that is, God’s idea of a mother) remember the word servant. And when you remember the word servant, remember that you have not been saved to sit back and wait, you have been saved to serve in faith. Finally, once you remember that you have been saved to serve,…serve. And count it a privilege to do so.

Just some thoughts from the heart and mind of His servant, Victor.

"…`Well done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.'”
Matt. 25:21

Tolerance

2009-04-21T19:18:00.000-07:00

I must say that I am more than just a little bit disturbed by the headlines that top our news. Not just today’s news but the news, day after day.

Day after day the news just seems to get worse and worse. I’m not necessarily talking about the collapse of Wall Street and mortgage foreclosures. I’m talking about the ever disintegrating moral fabric that once carried more weight than the political correctness that now supersedes any and all moral convictions people used to have. In fact, I’m not sure that a significant portion of the politically correct even know what morality is anymore. It has been distorted by the voices insisting upon tolerance.

I used to like that word (tolerance). To me it used to mean patience, forbearance, and open-mindedness. Now, it has been twisted into something ugly. Now, tolerance means patience with all religious schools of thought except evangelical Christianity. Now, It means to show forbearance towards all except those who disagree with the popular opinions that are contrary to biblical moral values. It now means open-mindedness to all things except the concept of absolute truth (and the salvation offered through Jesus Christ).

In this year's Miss America pageant Miss California, Carrie Prejean, was asked how she defines marriage. She responded, marriage is a union between a woman and man. She is now being crucified by the gay community and advocates of tolerance (under the new definition of the word). Nevertheless, when asked if she had it to do over again, would she have answered differently. Her reply was, "No. There are some convictions that I cannot compromise." Isn't it amazing that everyone is entitled to an opinion except those who's convictions are shaped by the Word of God?

In 1997, the same month and year I began serving here in Northern Virginia, singer/songwriter Rich Mullins died in a horrible car crash in Chicago. Sometime before he died, he penned the following words:
If I stand, let me stand on the promise that you will bring me through.

If I can, let me fall on the grace that first brought me to you.

If I sing, let me sing for the joy that has borne in me these songs.

If I weep, let it be as a man who is longing for his home.”

The world seems to have gone crazy. Each passing day, it gets more and more difficult to stand strong. The depressing news causes us to weep. The onslaught of immorality causes us to long for our heavenly home. Nevertheless, while we await Christ's return, we must stand, sing and weep while continuing to hold up His standard...in spite of popular opinion.

So, stand strong. And, by the way, if you do happen to take a tumble, thank God that His grace is there to catch you. Not so that you will stay down and wallow in mediocrity. And not so that you can stay down and soak in compromise. But so that you will get back up and stand.

"Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand." Ephesians 6:13 (NIV)

From the heart and mind of Victor, to those who still believe, are still intolerant of sin and who are determined to stand strong.

Happy Ressurection Day!

2009-04-11T18:04:00.000-07:00

It almost goes without saying that Resurrection Sunday is the most important day on the Christian calendar.

We celebrate the fact that our savior, Jesus, the son of the living God, rose up in victory and power. The Apostle Paul goes into significant detail in explaining the just how this impacts the believer:
1 Corinthians 15:14-20 (NLT) 14 And if Christ has not been raised, then all our preaching is useless, and your faith is useless. 15 And we apostles would all be lying about God—for we have said that God raised Christ from the grave. But that can’t be true if there is no resurrection of the dead. 16 And if there is no resurrection of the dead, then Christ has not been raised. 17 And if Christ has not been raised, then your faith is useless and you are still guilty of your sins. 18 In that case, all who have died believing in Christ are lost! 19 And if our hope in Christ is only for this life, we are more to be pitied than anyone in the world. 20 But in fact, Christ has been raised from the dead...

May you not forget to stop and take a moment to consider the significance of this day. And when you do…when you reflect on its implication, you will be blessed.

Happy Resurrection Day!

Cover Your Face

2009-04-01T05:46:00.000-07:00

When you think about it, prayer is pretty amazing.

To get some idea as to just how amazing it is, read something like Isaiah 40:

" Who else has held the oceans in his hand? Who has measured off the heavens with his fingers? Who else knows the weight of the earth or has weighed the mountains and hills on a scale? Who is able to advise the Spirit of the Lord? Who knows enough to give him advice or teach him?" (Isaiah 40:12-13 NLT)

After reading it, think about this: He is God, of whom all creation declares his glory. Yet He is so compassionate, so loving and so kind that he hears even the smallest prayer uttered in faith by a little child.

Sometimes when I walk into my office in the morning, I am overwhelmed by the need to spend some time in prayer. Yesterday was just such a morning. The urge hit me to pray. And so I did. Later, when I journaled, the words of my prayer crept into that journal. I decided to give you a rare peek into my journal and share it with you in this blog:

"Lord, I prayed covering my face from you this morning.
I prayed covering my face because your holiness is too great for me.
I prayed covering my face because my eyes cannot withstand your brightness.
I prayed covering my face because I needed to ask you for strength.
I prayed covering my face because I needed to ask you for wisdom.
I prayed covering my face because I needed to ask you for courage.
I prayed covering my face because your mercy is too brilliant for me.
I prayed covering my face because your grace is too overwhelming for me.
I prayed covering my face because I feel so unworthy in your presence.
I prayed covering my face because your presence is too magnificent for me to behold.

I prayed covering my face.

And now,...when I remove my hands from my face, let me be a little closer, a little wiser, a little stronger and a little bit more like you."

This was the prayer, on that Tuesday morning, from the heart and mind of Victor.

"But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and forever. Amen." (2 Peter 3:18 NKJV)

Servant/Leader/Steward

2009-02-09T16:27:00.000-08:00

I've noticed that successful churches seemed to be blessed to have a lot of dedicated servants and leaders. It does not have as much to do with the size of the church. It has everything to do with the attitude of those who serve and lead.

So here is a thought for those who serve and lead.

Have you ever considered the fact that Christ has graciously given gifts to men and women for the purpose of leading and serving. At least, that's what I conclude when mix Matthew 25 with Ephesians 4.

In Matthew 25 We find Jesus speaking to his disciples in parables. He tells the story of how a rich master gives talents (a denomination of money) to each of 3 servants. Upon his return he asks them one by one to report what they did with the talents he had given them. Two of the servants had done wisely with what had been entrusted to them, to which the master replies, "Well done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.' (Matt. 25:21)

These servants to whom Jesus referred may be more aptly called stewards. Did you know that, as believers, we too might categorize ourselves as “stewards?” Now, a steward is described as a person who has been entrusted with the management of estates or affairs not his own. Take a closer look at this passage and you will notice that Paul more than implies the idea of stewardship.

Now, add to this the thought that God has graciously given gifts to his stewards: "But to each one of us grace was given according to the measure of Christ's gift" (Ephesians 4:7).

Ephesians chapter 4 is a great passage that expounds on this idea of being equipped to serve. A read through leads me to draw at least four conclusions: (1) Christ has given gifts according to his grace; (2) Christ has graciously given gifts for the purpose of leadership; (3) Christ has given gifts for the purpose of encouraging believers to service and, finally, (4) Christ has given gifts for the purpose of bringing the church into spiritual maturity. The bottom line is, Christ has sacrificed much in order to equip us to be responsible stewards and effective leaders/servants in the body of Christ.

With this in mind, we might say that, God, who is the giver of what is good and perfect, has given to men the means by which they can attend to his affairs. He has given us the “talents” to be used to manage His estate. And what are God’s “affairs?” What is His “estate?” I would like to suggest to you that at the top of the list is His church. God has “entrusted” those in leadership with the responsibility of caring for His church. Not the building…but the body.” God has declared us to be His servants, His stewards, so that we might serve in the body.

All too often we regard stewardship simply as a matter of our giving to God, but this aspect is secondary. Before we can give, we must possess, and before we possess we must receive. Therefore, stewardship is, in the first place, receiving God's good and bounteous gifts. Once received, these gifts are not to be used solely for our own good. They must also be used for the benefit of others and, ultimately, for the glory of God, the Giver.

“The steward needs an open hand to receive from God and then an active hand to give to God and to others.” (Murray J. Harris, Christianity Today, Vol. 32, no. 4.)

To state this in another and, perhaps, overly simplified way, “God gives; We get; We give.”

So, take the attitude of a servant. Open your hand and your heart to receive what God wants to give to you. And then give back to God by serving others.

Just some thoughts from the heart and mind of Victor (servant/leader/steward) Stanley

It's Not About The Man

2009-01-17T19:41:00.000-08:00

Have you ever seen such fanfare as we have seen surrounding the inauguration of president Obama? Wow! Frankly, it would be just plan negligent to ignore the fact that history is being made right before our very eyes.

That the very mention of the name Obama can spark a plethora of emotion filled opinions is indisputable. In fact, a blog that I wrote after the election (see, “A Word About The Election” at http://www.victorstanley.blogspot.com/) sparked such a truckload passionate feedback from so many on both sides of the political fence that it left me a bit dumbfounded.

Thanks so much for your feedback. I did not expect that people would comment on my post. I was glad to see that some of you young people gave some serious thought to the political process. The right to vote is a privilege that should not be taken lightly. It has the ability to elect men and women who will leave an indelible mark on the moral fabric of our country. Please consider that during each election and choose wisely.

And now, like it or not, a new president is being inaugurated. May those of us who are believers in Jesus become more diligent in our prayers because both our country and our president will need them. Nevertheless, and though it might cause some of my readers a slight bit of discomfort, I would be dishonest if I did not admit that I am indeed moved by the historicity of the inauguration of this president. It’s not about the man. It’s about the moment.

I do somewhat recognize that it is very difficult for some to understand why, in spite of their political convictions (conservative, liberal or independent), so many are moved by this historical moment. Some of this is probably due to the fact that not all persons have shared the same life experiences growing up in America. It certainly seems that, given some of this country’s history, it has caused others to arrive at this moment and recognize its’ historical precedence. These experiences have caused many proud Americas to look beyond politics and become filled with wonder to see a person, an African American person, achieve what president Obama has. It’s not about the man. It’s about the moment.

Should our faith be shaken by this historic moment in American politics? No. Are we sometimes frustrated by politics? Yes. Are we, at times, disgusted with it? Most definitely. Is my faith shaken by it? No. That’s because my faith and convictions have been formed and shaped by God's word, not by anything that politicians and presidents have said or done. However, and in spite of having to navigate the minefield of American politics, I do greatly appreciate the fact that, for whatever reason, God has blessed me to be born and to live in this wonderful country of ours. I am, unabashedly, a proud American. And, given this historic moment, what a great time to be a proud American. It’s not about the man. It’s about the moment.

Over the years there have been many who have cheered as a rocket landed on the moon, wept as Kennedys fell, mourned as towers collapsed, and marched with King. They were significant experiences that will never be forgotten. However, and in spite of everything that we have lost, man still seems to hold on to hope. I think that is partly what so many see in the inauguration of this president. It’s not about the man. It was about the moment.

I heard it said a few weeks after the election that some were under the opinion that president elect Obama was the Anti-Christ. I doubt that very seriously. Let me assure you, I am not naïve enough to not recognize that our adversary, the Devil, continues to launch a relentless attack against the religious and moral convictions of God’s people. Furthermore, I certainly don’t know what the future holds for our government, its leaders and the decisions that they will make and how it will affect our country. I can only trust in God’s ability to use and keep us in the midst of it.

So, cast your worries and cares upon Jesus and don't miss this historical moment. Celebrate it. Besides, the way I look at it is, if Obama is the Anti-Christ, then, we would do well to head Romans 13:11: “Now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed.” In other words, the rapture (that moment when we believers will be caught up to be with our Lord) must be right around the corner. What a moment that will be. So, excuse me while I assume an attitude of praise. I want to be worshiping while I’m going up.

It is about the man (Jesus) and the moment.

Just some historical thoughts from the heart and mind of Victor.

Don't Be A Chicken

2009-01-01T20:58:00.001-08:00

Christmas. I've always felt that, if there is anyone who should celebrate Christmas, it should be believers in Jesus. After all, we are among those who know the "reason for the season" (as we are fond of saying). Question. What is the reason for the season? I mean, I know what the reason is but, what does that really mean for us Jesus-followers? Hopefully it means that Christ is more to us than simply a seasonal sensation that comes around once a year. There is always such a build up to Christmas and then, before you know it, it's gone.

A week later we find ourselves ringing in the New Year. And so...here we are. The holidays are past and we are now into a new year. Hopefully, it causes you to look back to review where you've been, in order to consider where you are going.

So? Where have you been? Where are you going? Do you even know who you are? Really? I know that they are hard to keep but the new year is a great time to make a resolution to discover, more fully, who you are in Christ. The bible tells us that, in Christ, we are made new.2 Corinthians 5:17 "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come."

The problem is, we have inadvertently allowed ourselves to become so influenced, so conditioned by secular humanism that we have lost a true sense of the magnificence of Christmas; of who Christ truly is; of who we are in Him and what it really means to be made new. It reminds me of a story (and you know how I like to tell stories)

An American Indian tells about a brave who found an eagle's egg and put it into the nest of a prairie chicken. The eaglet hatched with the brood of chicks and grew up with them. All his life, the changeling eagle, thinking he was a prairie chicken, did what the prairie chickens did. He scratched in the dirt for seeds and insects to eat. He clucked and cackled. And he flew in a brief thrashing of wings and flurry of feathers no more than a few feet off the ground. After all, that's how prairie chickens were supposed to fly. Years passed. and the changeling eagle grew very old.

One day, he saw a magnificent bird far above him in the cloudless sky. Hanging with graceful majesty on the powerful wind currents, it soared with scarcely a beat of its strong golden wings.

"What a beautiful bird!" said the changeling eagle to his neighbor. "What is it?"

"That's an eagle-the chief of the birds," the neighbor clucked. "But don't give it a second thought. You could never be like him."

So the changeling eagle never gave it another thought. And it died thinking it was a prairie chicken.

So, what's the point? The point is, don't be a dumb cluck (couldn't resist saying that).

So the question is, are you a prairie chicken or are you and eagle. In Christ, you are an eagle. However, lack of faith, neglect of your spiritual man and failure to walk in the statutes and commandments prescribed in God's word may have caused you to live like a prairie chicken.

The point is, many of you do not even realize that you are an eagle. God knows your capabilities, possibilities, gifts and talents. You need to make a Resolution. Will you resolve to remain a Prairie Chicken? Or, will you resolve to have a fixed purpose; to be determined; constant; steady; bold and unflinching?

The sky is the limit. So, resolve to be that Great Golden Eagle, soaring high upon the powerful wind currents of God's Spirit. Resolve to be fully persuaded in your Heart, Mind and Body that Jesus Christ is Lord of your life. Then...live like it.

Now. Go ahead. Soar.

Just a few thoughts from the heart and mind of Victor.

Moved By Grace

2008-11-21T21:06:00.000-08:00

Will it never end?

I'm talking about the endless struggle to be “conformed to the image of Christ.” I mean, we are told to be like Christ. This, I think, is a call for us to allow the teachings of the Savior to permeate every fiber of our being. That's a tall order but as believers we are supposed to be striving to achieve it. And yet, the longer I live the more I come to the realization that it is only through the grace of God that I’ll even come remotely close to it.

Undeniably, and I think some of you would agree, it is hard work.

Even so, it's not the trying that gets me,...it's the times that I fail that gets to me. Daily, I am faced with the reality that I fall terribly short of conforming to his image. It's because, whenever I try to do “Good,” there is that ever persistent “Bad” working against me. When the battle gets unbearable, I find myself crying out, like Paul did in Romans 7, "Oh wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death?" That's when the resounding answer comes, "Jesus! Jesus can deliver me!"

At this stage of my life, I have come to believe that it is good to periodically stop whatever it is I am doing, sit down for a moment and take a brief review of my life. What that does is allows for a moment to see where I’ve been. Because there just may be some truth to the old adage that, if we take the time to review where we’ve been, we can better get a bearing on where it is we want to go. You should try it sometime. However, be forewarned that looking back does not always yield all pleasant memories.

As I have reviewed my life I have found that, at times, I have failed miserably. I have found that, in spite of all the time that God has invested in me, at times, I take my eyes off of Jesus and still get caught up in the mundane cares of this world. I have found that I am still susceptible to temptations and that, if I’m not careful, sin can overtake me. In fact, if I’m not careful, the guilt and the shame of past failure will eat away at me like a cancer, leaving me weak and useless.

There have been times that I’ve thought that I was super strong. That’s when 1 Corinthians 10:12 came screaming at me, "Therefore, let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall!" And, boy! Have I had some great falls in my life.

Remember how, in one of the earlier versions of the Superman series (with Christopher Reeves playing the “Man of Steel”), Lois Lane’s car is swallowed by a crack in the earth? Superman is busy saving the rest of the world. By the time he gets to Lois he has to pull her sunken, soil-filled, car out of the crevice. She is deceased. His heart is broken. He is beside himself with grief. He suddenly thrusts himself up into the atmosphere and begins to fly around the earth at lightning speed in an attempt to reverse its rotation. As he gradually succeeds, time itself begins to be reversed. Lois Lane’s car pops back out of the fissure; the crack in the earth recedes; Lois is alive again! Yay! Superman then returns the earth back to its natural rotation. Time resumes, and then he flies back down to earth and gets to Lois before the tragedy takes place. She’s saved! The end.

Have you ever wished you could do that? I have. Because if I could, I could reverse time back to every time I made a mistake, every time I failed miserably, every time I said something stupid or make a bad choice. I could reverse time and then make a different choice. Man! I would have it made. I would be perfect! Well,…not really. I would still be flawed. It’s just that you wouldn’t know it. My mistakes would be hidden behind an endless string of reversals that leave folks with the impression that I am perfect, only, it would be a false impression of perfection. The truth of the matter is, I have found that I am not perfect. I am still striving to be more Christ-like. I have found that I am still a disciple in training. Were it not for God’s grace, I don’t know where I’d be right now. One thing I do know, I’d most certainly be lost.

What about you? Have you had any struggles? Have you had any failures or weaknesses? If you have, you need to be reminded that God is really good at forgiving the past. If you have ever fallen down let me encourage you to now stand on His promises because God does not lie. If he says he will forgive, then, he really will forgive. Just ask Him. After this, if you ever fall again, may you fall on God’s Grace because it makes for a very soft landing.

It’s hard work but God wants us to be “conformed to the image of His Son,” (Romans 8:29). He wants us to be His disciples. He wants us to be Jesus followers. Nevertheless, God does not want us to be motivated by fear but moved by His grace...

...And, personally, God's Grace is a never ending and comforting refrain in the heart and mind of Victor.

A Word About the Election

2008-11-05T15:15:00.000-08:00

Unfortunately, I have need to speak to the recent contest to elect a Commander-in-Chief for the United States of America.

My intent was to say nothing. However, it is coming to my attention that many are upset, bewildered, distraught, angry and depressed over the outcome of the recent election. Let me say at the outset that I do not understand this. I mean, I understand that many had hoped for a different outcome. What I don’t understand is why they can’t simply accept the fact that the contest did not go their way? Get over it and move on. I do not understand why they would doubt that God is still in control.

I would not even bring this up but I am hearing that there are people whose displeasure with the outcome of the election is causing them to expect me to respond in a way that affirms their attitude towards the whole thing. Some are sending me correspondence, wanting me to speak to it on Sunday morning. Frankly, I think that a lot of the attitudes are not godly attitudes at all. These types of attitudes lack faith in God’s sovereignty. They lack the ability to decipher the things of God from the things of man. They lack the spiritual discernment to consider that God raises up kings and kingdoms for his use. They fail to consider that God can turn the hearts of kings (and presidents) and use them for his purposes. They lack the common Christian sense to know or accept that God is not now, nor has he ever been, affiliated with any political party.

Here is my stance: I will not use the pulpit/platform to influence, urge, persuade or sway people to vote for one political party or the other. God has not called me to preach politics. He has called me to preach the gospel. He called me to encourage us to feed the hungry, to clothe the naked, to give a warm coat to a child and to go and make disciples. A person is free to vote in any way their convictions lead them to vote. And, let me be clear, I will not make Republicanism synonymous with Christianity, nor will I be narrow minded enough to think that there is no such thing as a Christian Democrat. Additionally, I will not doubt a person’s patriotism because of their party affiliation. I will not be sucked into the vortex of political debate by disgruntled voters who want me to condemn all things non-Republican. If someone wants to vote moral issues, go ahead. If someone else wants to vote social issues, fine. If another person wants to vote ethical issues, be my guest. Just remember, Jesus was concerned about all three.

I am telling you this because you need to know what my response will be to folks who are so passionate and upset about the issue that they are expecting me to speak negatively about the perceived “tragedy that has befallen America.” You need to know that I will not publicly endorse an attitude of negativism and berating of our next president. The man has been elected. Whether we like it or not, he will be the president of the most powerful nation on the face the planet. My job is to pray for him, long, hard and continuously,… just like I did for the last president.

Let me be frank, I realize that, because I am an African American, people here are very curious as to where I stand. Some are even a bit nervous about it. I can let you know this: they may find themselves very frustrated to find that where I stand is with Jesus; what I will preach is Christ crucified and risen; and what I am interested in doing is everything within my ability to win lost souls to Christ. I will do this regardless of who is in the White House.

In closing, and at the risk of making some of you nervous, I must say to you: my grandparents and my parents knew what it was to experience hatred and discrimination beyond human comprehension. Due to my age, I am old enough to look back and am able to tell you vivid stories of discrimination, name calling, and hatred due to the color of my skin. This led me to come to the conclusion that it would be light years before America would elect a Black man into the highest office of the most powerful country on the face of the earth. My grandfather thought this day was a dream that would never be realized, before the return of Christ. The last time I was home, my father suggested, if a black man was elected, he will have seen everything and can’t imagine what else there would be to top that.

It is so sad to see that so many allow their blinding passion for party affiliation and some of it under the insincere guise of moral convictions (not all of it but some of it), that they missed the image of all those people in Grant Park, in Chicago. All those people, Black, White, Asian, Latino, with their arms around one another, some of them weeping, united in one place. Sure, I know that they were rooting for a Liberal. Nevertheless, and say what you will, it was a defining moment in American History.

There is no other nation on the face of this planet that is so culturally, racially and ethnically diverse, and yet, we are able to work and live together (at the very least) with a significant measure of civility towards one another. That is amazing. Absolutely amazing. We witnessed history in the making unfold right before our eyes. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to witness it.

Now, having done so, I return to my work, to my studying, to my preaching, to my praying, to my counseling and dealing with people’s problems and to my making ministry plans. I do so with the passion that my citizenship in heaven will supersede my citizenship as an American. I do so with the conviction that my ethnicity as a Saint of the Savior supplants my ethnicity as an African American. I do so knowing that, as great as this history making moment was, it cannot hold a candle to that moment when I will witness our Lord—when he cracks open the sky and comes for His Saints. He will not come only for Black men. He will not come only for White men. He will not come only for Latino men. He will not come only for Democrats and he will certainly not come only for Republicans. He will come for all men. And when he comes, I want Him to find me busy working the works of Him who has called me, while it is day.

With an attitude of grace, and in Sincere Awe of my Savior,

Blogging To Be Known

2008-10-26T19:39:00.000-07:00

This Blogging thing is new to me but it's not really new. Frankly, blogging is simply journaling, online. At least that's the way I look at it. I've been journaling for a long time now and, actually, it can be therapeutic. The difference is, with blogging, you're putting your thoughts out there for the world to see. That can be very risky, yet hundreds of thousands of people do it every day. But why?

How are we to understand this desire people have to reveal their innermost thoughts? Perhaps it's because we want to be known, yet accepted. Acceptance is a big deal. It's such a big deal, in fact, that people pretend to be something they are not just so they'll be accepted. Let's park on this idea for a minute.

Nobody knows us better than we know ourselves. The scary thing is, even though we know ourselves we still sometimes become confused about who we are—why we make some of the decisions we make; why we say some of the things we say. Learning how to get a handle on who we are is a daily challenge. God knew it would be a challenge and warned us in his word. Think about it. This is why we're told we need to control our tongue; we're told to crucify the flesh; we're told to put to death the old man and put on the new man, daily. Why? I think it's because it is in our nature to not be totally honest with ourselves. We like to think more highly of ourselves than we ought to. More than this, we want others to think more highly of us than perhaps they ought to. Even the most humble person, known for being a real sweet person, if they are honest with themselves, would have to admit that it feels real good to hear others say how sweet and humble they are. Everybody likes a little praise. We have to attribute this to our sinful nature. None of us are immune to it.

Anyway, as I started to say at the beginning of this train of thought, I am struck by the idea that we want to be known, yet accepted. This is to say, we long to have someone who will accept us, in spite of knowing us (our personality flaws, our struggles, our imperfections, our short comings, our hidden sins) and love us anyway. Think about it. Isn't this one of the true acts of love, for someone to know us but accept and love us anyway? We experience this on a micro scale through loving relationships with our best friends, our spouse, our parents, our children. Admit it. It feels good to be accepted. The direct opposite of this is rejection. And I'm sure you'd agree that rejection doesn't feel so good. In fact, rejection has driven a number of people away from other human beings, home, and family. They retreat into seclusion, depression or even self destruction and this is a bad thing.

So the bottom line is, we all desire acceptance. Even the folks who say they can care less about it, if they confront themselves honestly, will have to admit that being accepted is, at the very least, a real good feeling.

This brings me to the crux of the matter. No one knows us better than God. And, in spite of knowing us, he accepts us. More than this, in spite of knowing our messed up, mixed up ways, he loves us. The desire to be known, I think, is innate and longs to be satisfied. Ultimately, God is the only one who can satisfy this longing. The climax of being known (to the extent the longing to be known will be completely satisfied) will occur when we are one with him, in heaven.

Perhaps this idea of being known can be, in some measure, related to 1 Corinthians 13:12 "For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known." Won't it be wonderful when your honest, raw, innermost secrets are revealed and laid bare and yet still be accepted? I mean, I know that God knows all that stuff about us now and that down here we still wrestle with the guilt of it. However, in heaven, it won't even cross our minds.

In the meantime, I guess people, in their effort to be known, will continue to put their thoughts out there on a blog. How much will they reveal? I guess it depends upon what kind of blogging they do. I'm still fleshing out exactly what type of blog I want to do. I think I've decided I want to put my honest, raw thoughts out there. The reason for this is because I believe that there are other Jesus Followers who can identify with the honest and raw. There are too many believers who hide behind masks and make themselves look a whole lot better than they really are. As a healthy alternative, it can be refreshing to experience the honest, transparent and raw.

I just thought of something. Sometimes one way we can come to know ourselves better, is through someone else revealing themselves. It certainly is true: just like iron sharpens iron, one human being interacting with (or coming to know) another human being results in a sharpening of one another. As believers in Jesus and members of the family of God, that sharpening is for the better.

At least this is how the whole thing is being processed in the heart and mind of Victor.

Finding God In Wal-Mart

2008-10-04T18:51:00.001-07:00

I wonder if people really think about their purpose in life.

I suppose that people list all kinds of reasons for their purpose in life. I was sitting in Wal-Mart on the bench near the pharmacy. Cynthia was pushing the cart around being sure to get all those essentials we must have been lacking or had depleted (like toothpaste). I was feeling a bit melancholy…quite a bit melancholy. Don’t know why I was feeling that way. I just was. I suppose we all get that way at times (melancholy, I mean). As I sat there, a kid rolled by on those sneakers with the wheels built into the soles. A woman happened by with an expression that revealed she was on a desperate quest for some essential item that would bring completeness to her life (probably toothpaste). A handsome guy who looked like he was from a magazine add strolled past, followed by a woman who was a shoe-in for the add on the next page. A mother walks by with a look of disgust on her face. Not far behind is her little boy whirling and twirling, making sound effects (Bang! Pow! Whap! Bap!). He was obviously playing out his fantasy of being a super hero or crime fighter. Heck! Who knows? In this day and age he could have been pretending to be the villain.

As I scanned the scene passing before my eyes it was if the camera of my mind suddenly panned back to reveal that there were literally dozens upon dozens of folks in the store. I know that they were there for a purpose. They had come to purchase some need or want. However, the thought crossed my mind, how many people here ever think about their purpose in life. Do they think about the fact that life is more than food or drink (or toothpaste)? How many of them have given thought concerning the condition of their soul? How many had come to the realization that, apart from Christ, life is meaningless. Suddenly, I was also reminded of just how meaningless my life would be without Christ.

I thought back about how passionate I became to live for Him; to the extent that I felt I had to leave the path I was pursuing (literally, leave my job and put my family on a tight budget) and go to bible college in order to be trained for ministry. I would be lying if I said there were not times that I second guessed that decision over the years. Thankfully, now, those moments are little more than passing thoughts. Still, when one becomes melancholy and entrenched in deep contemplation, even moments of passing thoughts can seem like hours.

My mother has told me for years that God had a purpose for my life. When I was young He revealed that purpose. I was to serve in the church as a volunteer. When I was dating Cynthia, he revealed that purpose was to take this godly woman to be my wife and for us serve him as one. When we had our first child, I realized that God was telling me my purpose was to be a godly father. When I got older and was on the road to success he revealed that purpose was to change my focus to full-time ministry. In these middle years of my life it seems God’s purpose is for me to pastor a church. The real truth of the matter is, I have come to realize that all the events of my life have been stepping stones to take me to the next level, the next phase, to one step closer to fulfilling God’s purpose for my life.

Honestly, do we ever really know? Can we ever really get our arms around God’s plan and how we fit into it? I think not. It is too lofty for us to comprehend. We must satisfy ourselves with the knowledge that we are, indeed, a part of it. By "it" I mean to say His plan. If, by the grace of God, I finish well and find myself sitting looking out of a window, full of years and eyes growing dim, I will be acknowledging that God’s purpose for my life, at that moment, is to be a wise old man, imparting words of wisdom to some young lad who is wrestling with finding his purpose in life.

There are a lot of Wal-Marts and an awfully lot of people in them. There are a lot of people wandering the isles looking for needs and wants. I pray that the overwhelming majority of them find that they desperately need Jesus and will then allow him to move their lives through the steps that will transform them, ever transform them. Just like he is ever transforming you and me. Until, one day, we shall all be like him, for we shall see him as he is (1 John. 3:3).

As I sat in Wal-Mart, these were the thoughts that were in my heart and on my mind.

God is like Jazz

2008-09-13T17:14:00.000-07:00

I've never thought of comparing God to jazz music before. It took a clever writer like Donald Miller to do that. Writes Miller:
"I never liked Jazz music because Jazz music doesn't resolve. But I
I was outside the Bagdad Theater in Portland one night when I saw a man playing the saxophone. I stood there for fifteen minutes, and he never opened his eyes. After that I liked jazz music. Sometimes you have to watch somebody love something before you can love it yourself. It is as if they are showing you the way. I used to not like God because God didn't resolve. But that was before any of this happened."

What happened? you ask. "Life," Miller would probably say. At least that's what I think he'd say. Miller has a quirky, unpredictable style of writing. To me life is equally as unpredictable and quirky. Maybe that's why I like his style. I mean, it is amazing the views and opinions we hold, that is, until life happens to us. Once life starts happening to us it has a way of forcing us to rethink our opinions. It reshapes our views and molds our personalities. Perhaps this is why Jesus says that he is the "Way and the Truth and the Life." If we allow him to become the biggest influence in our life, then we will allow him to reshape our opinions and our views. God's desire is for us to be reshaped and molded into the image of his dear son, Jesus.

The most difficult part to accept about God is that he does not resolve. He does not answer every question with an answer. He tends to answer questions with a question. He does not solve every problem with a sum total, rather, he takes the total and divides it into parts. In this, God has a way of teaching us patience. Because, most likely, we won't see how those divided parts fit together to form a complete picture until our today’s become tomorrow’s and eternity becomes now.

Maybe that's why everybody should like jazz. It's a bunch of musicians who all seem to be playing their own tune. They free-style and solo, seemingly, at will. I think it's cool because, by the end of the song, it all comes together in a strange sort of way that does not seem to resolve but to the jazz lover it sounds sweet and makes perfectly good harmonic sense. The musicians simply close their eyes and only occasionally look at their instruments. They simply play without looking. It's as if they are in love with the music; as if the music is the love of their life.
Sometimes you have to watch somebody love something before you can love it. Watching the Father love the Son, and, in turn, watching the Son love me has caused me to fall in love with the Son. Why does he love me? I haven’t resolved that yet but like jazz, his love sure is sweet.

Just some thoughts from my heart and mind.

Welcome

2008-08-30T19:09:00.000-07:00

I begin this blog with the word "welcome" I guess because it just seems to be the most appropriate thing to say. The word is defined as: "A word of kindly greeting, as to one whose arrival gives pleasure: as in 'Welcome, stranger!'" And it certainly is a pleasure to welcome you to my blog.

I was thinking that this word would be an appropriate one for more than one reason. I welcome you for choosing to log into this blog. I appreciate your stopping by. I also welcome some of you because you've welcomed me by choosing to allow me to serve as the pastor of Calvary...for a season. Furthermore, I welcome you because, over the years, many of you have welcomed me into your hearts and homes. Finally, I welcome you because I consider it a real privilege to share my thoughts and musings with you.

You may be wondering what to expect from this site. I wish that I could boast that you will read something really profound that will impact your life and give you the keys to happiness. Alas, I cannot. The reason? Well, because apart from the amazing grace of God that saves and keeps me there is nothing really profound about me.

Nevertheless, as you log in to read some of my thoughts and observations about everything from listening to music to something as simple as shopping at Wal-mart, perhaps something will resonate with you.

Over time, may my words reveal the heart and mind of a man who is profoundly overwhelmed by God's unmerited favor towards him (me). I am simply blown away by the fact that, in spite of my failures and utter deficiencies, he continues to put up with me. Wow! What a love!

Not that I have an awful lot to say but please log in from time to time to see what's on my heart and what's on my mind. I look forward to seeing you in church.

PS: when you get time I thought that you might enjoy reading what I wrote several months ago, right after the church voted to call me to be the 8th pastor of Calvary. It's in an earlier blog. You can find it below or through our web site.

In Christ Alone,

Victor

Post CBC Vote for Sr. Pastor

2008-03-18T08:29:00.000-07:00

It’s done. After what seemed like an eternity, the congregational votes were cast to answer the elders recommendation to call Victor Stanley as the 8th Sr. Pastor of Calvary Baptist Church. They were cast on last Sunday, Feb. 24. Not only did I get voted in as SP, but I also received a standing ovation as I stepped up on the platform to express my thanks . I fully did not expect that. Wow! Some folks even wept with joy…or with terror? Not sure which. Ha!

What a roller coaster the last several weeks have been. Both Cynthia and I feel exhausted. I am now heading up a search committee to begin searching for a pastor of worship to replace me.

Our current/former Sr. Pastor, Alfy, is busily sending out resumes to find another church to pastor. The guy has served faithfully for 14 plus years. He is my friend and brother and Cynthia and I are praying he soon finds God's perfect place for him and Karen.

So I am planning my preaching schedule and meeting with elders and my colleague and ministry partner, Randy Scott, in order to cast the vision, lay out a plan for the future of Calvary and explain my strategy for achieving our goals. I am also praying for God's guidance as I contemplate our multimillion dollar capital fund raising campaign. I don’t fear the fund raiser though. I just believe that if our people catch the vision and serve faithfully, God will honor that and give an increase. We are already contracted to purchase land in a new development near the Potomac River harbor and I'm excited when I think about seeing how God will bring that to fruition.

Needless to say, I could use your prayers. I intend to use this Blog to keep you updated on what is happening at CBC, as well as just letting you know what's on my mind. I'm confident that God can use me (and you. "We") to take Calvary to the next level of life and ministry.

"Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings."
Samuel Johnson

God Bless!

From The Heart and Mind of Victor